Master Teacher - Teach your Son?

Why not first visit the make believe world of Surya Ma where, to paraphrase her website, 

"This jewel among jewels, this divine being that we are all lucky to have living amongst us is here to garce our presence and generally lift our poor souls from the depths so that we can sit at her feet and bask in her glory!"
 

Leaving aside the fantasy and propaganda (put up on her website to suck in more recruits to the cult) let us now visit the truth of what life is really like with, and around, the so called "Master Teacher!"

The idea that this woman is any kind of a teacher - let alone - a Master Teacher is just a joke!  And if she is a Master Teacher then why has she not taught her son?  They say charity begins at home well if Ms West was a tenth of the divine being that she claims she is why is her son's life so messed up?  Or is it a case of the apple not falling far from the tree?  The tree being Surya Ma!

I hear that Jamie Haywood after leaving her husband for alleged assault and going to court to get custody of her daughter and winning that battle has just gone back to him, I wish her all the best.  However I fear that leopards do not change their spots and the chances of two of them (Ms West and her son) changing their spots is next to zero but good luck anyway Jamie!

A few days ago I got an email from Chris Haywood's sister Phereadra basically informing me that Chris was much misunderstood and that Kendall, his ex partner and mother of eight year old Sondra, had 'issues.'  I passed on the email to Kendall whose mother Sara came back via email with a response to Phereadra's email posted below.  (Phereadra has asked me not to post her email)

I print Sara's (Kendall's mother and Sondra's maternal grandmother) emails ONLY because I want to show the world what a fraud Ms West, Surya Ma, Devra Ji etc is!  This woman is a black widow spider in the middle of a web waiting for the next victims to fly in.  Victims like Dr Patricia MD who are now suing her for assault and for the return of $700,000+ that Ms West allegedly extorted from her (click this link to see local newspaper article).  Victims like Rebecca, West's ex office manager, who are taking her to the labor board for wages and overtime she is owed.

If Ms West was one tenth of what she claimed to be on her web site and if her claims to divinity were true surely her son Chris would be some sort of a messianic figure?  But no, on the contrary, her son has a boatload of issues which allegedly include assault, drugs, DUI's forgery etc.  But how can this be if his mother is the next Christ?

Well she is not.  She is a fraud pretending to be something she is obviously not.  Why?  Because she makes her living out of ripping other people off.  I know I worked for her for 6 months and saw her at it!  Apparently, according to a witness present in court at the recent custody battle over Jamie & Chis's daughter, Ms West who was doing her best to appear 'normal' was asked by a member of the court, "What about the six court cases you have against you?" To which Ms West allegedly replied, "I don't know anything about 6 court cases!"

Now please read the emails below and see what Sondra's maternal grandmother has to say about West's son and know that grandmother West is NO guru, NO prophet and certainly NO divine being - but just a fraudster trying to make a living out of ripping other people off!  Further more grandmother West AKA Surya Ma, Devra Ji, The Slayer of Illusion etc. will, to protect her business and her family, use intimidation and ill will to keep her victims quiet and against anyone else who stands in her way. 

Read what the inlaws have to say and if what you read 'sounds' like what you would expect from the offspring of a "Master Teacher" then God help us all!

----- Original Message -----
From:sara lampe
To:Phaywood.com
Cc: 'John Watson'
Sent: Saturday, July 21, 2007 4:23 PM
Subject: You need the facts Phaedra:

I realize that Chris is your brother and you want only to believe him but you do not understand him and the truth. Your brother has problems with drugs, alcohol and sex. My daughter does neither except an occasional class of wine. Why did the courts give him custody? Money, honey not the truth. Your mother in court the other day stated money will get you whatever you want. She is correct. But the truth cannot be messed with.

Unfortunately, Sondra and now Sasha are having to pay the price. Your brother filed false child abuse charges and the advocate never looked into your brothers abusive behavior, drug problems and his stalking. Had the advocate checked out things as instructed by the courts, Sondra would be with her mother. Paid off – you tell me or better yet ask your mom. Also, did Chris tell you about the bloody diapers when Sondra was an infant? When that came to light – No more bloody diapers when she came home from a visit with him. Did he also tell you about the burn on Sondra chest while in his care and how it got there? She left with no burn and comes back with a burn on her chest. He still won’t admit to how it was done but claims it came from a, curling iron. We saw Sondra before the exchange as we took her there, and there was NO burn on her (besides Kendall did not own a curling iron). Sondra left in straight hair and pictures shown by Chris show Sondra to have curly hair. My, My. How did he know it was a curling iron that made the mark?

Kendall has NO Criminal Records and has NEVER done drugs - On the other hand your brother has a FBI conviction in New Mexico, been convicted of marijuara, several DUI’s and hit and run in Montana. In Colorado they would not give him a drivers license due to -- Why? He now has one but for some reason has no drivers license in the state of Montana – Why? What does he have to fear? Also, as mentioned in court 7/12/07, there was lots of cocaine at their wedding and he was taking part in it. Wow, what a great place for Sondra to have been place in. I’m sure you saw that going on as you at the wedding. Both Jamie and Chris admitted to doing drugs and marijuana. Also, their hair follicles should be revealing plus your brother admitted after caught in a lie at court that he does marijuana. He also admitted to viewing porn on the computer. Jamie also talked about the many porn movies she’s gotten rid of. Great place for two kids to be in wouldn’t you say? NOT!!

My daughter does none of these things. Her home is full of love, nurturing, honesty and a wholesome environment. Also, social services in Colorado did NOT recommend that your brother have custody but that Sondra should stay with her mother and that Chris has behavior problems. The advocate is the one the judge listened to, and as stated she did not do her job as was instructed. Also, mentioned in court, Jamie was told by Chris to get an abortion so as not to ruin his chances of getting Sondra. Also, when Jamie was beaten by Chris in Colorado and she filed a police report, Chris convinced her once again to refute the charges so that the advocate would not find out. Nice guy? He also use to hit my daughter. Leaving bruises on her just like he has done to Jamie. The reason she left him – he had her up against the wall by her neck and Sondra was in her arms. Nice person wouldn’t you say. I think he should get the father, husband award.!! NOT!

Your brother has not nor never will change. As for Sondra she has never cared for Chris. As a baby when she heard him she would scream and cry. As she has gotten older I believe she does have some feelings for him but not like she has for her mother and her sisters. At the court. you should have seen her. Sondra was terrified of him and your mother. When they were not in the room she would sit next to her mother, laugh and have a good time. When they came into the room, she became distant, fearful and quiet. Sondra also begged to go home with her mother and did not want to go home with Chris. Chris also claims to have back problems from an accident. His back bothered him before the accident, however, he can wave board, mow the lawn – boy how’s the back doing? Chris also claimed in court he was going to get job training. Well, can’t say that he has done that. According to their testimony, he sleeps a lot, on the computer a lot, does drugs, drinks a lot and he and Jamie fight a lot.

Where does he get his income? For someone who does not work – he lives in a very large house, drives two new Toyota SUV’s and spends lots of money. Oh, I forgot he also spent Sondra’s $10,000 that she received from the car accident. Wasn’t his to spend. He should of put that money away for her for when she got older. Ya know, Phaedra, you need to find out the facts because you do not have them.

You should also look at your family and re-assess their family values. To me good family values do not include, cocaine, marijuana, other drugs, perverted sex, physical and mental abuse as well as lots of alcohol. If these are your values of what you would like to have in your immediate family please be my guest but Sondra and Sasha do not need these family values. They are good children and they deserve to be in a safe, wholesome, loving environment. None of which they are getting today while living with Chris, his mother and Jamie.

Grandma in Colorado

----- Original Message -----
From:sara lampe
To:'John Watson'
Sent: Saturday, July 21, 2007 11:16 PM
Subject: RE: You need the facts

John: It’s okay with me to print my response. I also shared it with Kendall and we both agree there could have been more said. During all this custody battle Chris has kept saying Kendall was manipulative, alienator and conflict driven. Manipulative??? Think not.

Chris constantly complained until he got what he wanted. As in, when Judge Smith gave Kendall permanent custodial rights and he put together a parenting plan, Chris immediately in court tried to change that but the judge would not. Chris then went to the new advocate and immediately complained and the parenting plan was changed to his liking. Which gave Kendall less time with Sondra and him more time. Chris’s main goal and he found an advocate to give him exactly what he wanted has alienated Kendall from Sondra. So who manipulates? Chris.

Chris did not like the permanent orders that Judge Smith ordered, so Chris again started making allegation that were not true and consequently, the whole permanent orders were changed by the advocate in another court and with yet another judge. Manipulative? Yes Chris is. Just look at where Jamie is presently. Back with Chris.

As for conflict driven, I’d say yes. Kendall knows Chris. She has been through his and his mother’s physical and mental abuse, and has not wanted Sondra to experience an unhealthy environment. What’s wrong in trying to protect your daughter? However, if the last advocated would have looked into matters as she was instructed, I believe Sondra would be in a far different environment. An environment with love, honesty, trust and safety. Sondra would not be experiencing adult sex, drugs and alcohol. I fear if both children are not removed from their present environment, then our society is preparing these young ladies for failure and drug / alcohol abuse as well as physical and mental abuse.

Copyright 2007. John Watson. All rights reserved.